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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi everone well there is that teacher who's totally creepy in my school. Anyways, 2 years ago we had some problems and she doesn't call me my name, she already knows my name but she wanted to insult me, then she started smiling to me whenever i talk to her. I was kind of surprised cause i thought she hated me so why would she smile to me?After that i wanted to talk to my sis who was in her class so i said "can i talk to my sis" The teacher said "weren't you together yesterday" I said "yeah but i wanna tell my sister something" She laughed and let me in. That was wierd she wanted to talk to me. so the next year i was walking by her side she thought i would greet her and kept staring at me but i didn't greet her, then she started staring at me a lot without smiling and when i talk to her she stares directly at my eyes for about 3-5 seconds. So... my question is this... do you think that she does all that cause she's creepy?? or because she likes me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 It sounds as if your teacher doesn't have a well developed set of interpersonal skills. Lots of people don't. It doesn't mean she is attracted to you, or hates you. Perhaps you confuse her for some reason or she feels awkward around you. Teachers sometimes appear super-confident but underneath they are torn apart wondering how to deal with the multiple school situations that they are faced with. Teaching college cannot 'teach' interpersonal skills. It doesn't sound like she has done anything too creepy like touch you or make inappropriate suggestions so try not to read too much into it. At worst she doesn't like you very much (because of your history with her?) and is trying to hide her feelings in an effort to be professional.
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