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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need to know if my friend is still with his girlfriend, because i want to be with him, but i'm to shy to ask him, please read this and tell me if you can say by what i have written that suggest they are not together.They have been together 4months, in the frist couple off months they were always togther, but now when i call they are hardly together, latley he always says she is busy or she has alot on. When i call him to ask what he's doing each day, he ALWAYS says not much going home, watch tv and bed. I am a mum and i get to go out maybe once or twice a month, and he says i have more of a life than him. He has been saying i look nice of late.I asked him the other day if he was happy with his love life, he said yeah but it didn't sound convincing, then he went on to say its early days and she has alot on.I thought these were the months when you want to spend all your time with the new partner, but for these two not really, it shouldn't matter how busy you are you must make time for your relationship. (its not like they live far away from each other).His also been working alot more himself.He doesn't seem happy when i talk to him these days, he said he wished people would leave him alone, and he wished he could hide away from the world, and his very stressed.Im 33, his 42, he has two kids from diffrent women and his girlfriend is 21, he was with someone for a year and abit had a child with her, he split from her 4months ago, and without any breaks, he jump into another relationship with the 21yr old.Please help is is still with her?
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reader, !x!T!x! +, writes (30 August 2007):
 just ask him how things are goin with them simple as that :) x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 What are you doing?
If you like him, ASK HIM OUT!
Men and women were not designed to be just friends.
He is with her because she is 21 and he gets off having sex with a younger girl. He is happy with the sex, but not with the "love" or lack there of.
The worst he can do is refuse, but if you do not make your move, you will just waste more time.
-Frank B Kermit
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