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writes:Is he in a rebound relationship.I've been split up from my ex about 3 months we have a 7 month old. He has been with the new girl 1-2 months at the time he would say she is the one and his type and he wants to settle down with her, that was like 2 months ago, now he says him and his new girl might last and they might not last, he also says now, not referring to the girl, whoever I settle down with, surely if she was the one, he would know and be confident in saying so.I also know she just split up from some recently too.Do you think he is just seeing if the grass is greener on the over side or do you really think she is the one.He was always harping on how much he loved me etc, even told friends and my family he still loved me that was 2 months ago.Do you think it's just lust with the new girl, because to be replaced so soon, he can't have loved me in the 1st place.
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hes on the rebound. We've all done it at times. I bet hes not enjoying it much when hes with her. I got with someone 3 months after splitting from someone i still loved and at first i was really excited! But soon we would be sat in my living room and i was thinking this isnt right.I didnt stay with him in the end, didnt get back with the ex either but it took me a good year to get over the ex.Some people can fall in love again real quick but most cant and try just to get over their ex BECAUSE they love them. Its called a rebound. Helps in the short term but not the long term.Weather you 2 will get back together is another matter though?All the best.C xxxx
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