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Do you think it is a good idea to talk to my ex? I told her we cant be together

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Question - (28 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2007)
A female United States age 22-25, raynbopyde637 writes:

hey so its been awhile since i have asked for some advice. but anyhow if u read my last few post i was taling about the relationship with my ex of 2.5yrs and how it got bad kus of an ex friend!! anyhow those two ended up dating..omg'sh it was heartbreaking..but its been four months and im better i have moved on..my fren jess (her ex was my exfriend, who hooked up with my ex)

anyhow our ex's hooked up and moved n together. and from wat i hear it has been hell for them both, they actually just broke up after living together/dat'n also for only alil over a month.

now what my ex doesnt know is that jess ex has been trying to get back with her for just about amonth..sucks right!!! they have been going thru it..karma right...

well shocking shocking my ex tracked my new number down and called me we tlkd for about 3hrs.. i made it clear that i didnt want to talk to ther only because i could believe wat she had done. she is basically really unhappy. at times she would brng us up but i changed the subject.

so my question is do u thnk its a good idea to talk...i mean i told her i couldnt ever be with her again because of all that happen all the hurt. she did apologize and told me she would always be there..n yes admited to makin a horrible mistake.

so is it bad i let her call. i dont call her i don text when she does i respond. i went thru lots of pain with this girl during the break up..but have a wonderful past with her.

i guess i dont really want to be friends but also afriad of/ if the time comes to tell her "NO"!

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A female reader, Ms.Sweet dreams Philippines +, writes (29 September 2007):

Ms.Sweet dreams agony auntwow i thought u r a girl can u please change ur gender? well the answer is in u. u know why? coz she break ur heart in the past but ur heart still screaming her name and u still love her just go on. follow ur heart don't be afraid to be hurt again coz the destiny can u brings u on. but watch out maybe she just used u coz she was unhappy and next day she will be with in other guy. i have question do u have gf? i hope not coz ur in trouble. well hope i can help u to solve ur problem. goodluck!!!

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A female reader, FoxyR Jamaica +, writes (28 September 2007):

FoxyR agony auntHi,

it is har to say "NO"! but sometimes it has to be done. Just say it to her face to face.

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