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writes:Hey - I was wondering if I went too far with my girlfriend - We started kissing on the sofa and then I started moving my hands into her trousers into her bra. Did I go too far? I'm not sure if she enjoyed it or not and I'm worried that next time I won't be able to control what I do. She has said to her mate that she doesn't want to have sex with me yet. What shall I do?
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (6 April 2007):
 Let her set the pace. She's capable of letting you know when you've gone too far, but for now I wouldn't push it any more than you already have. Don't try to undress her or even do much more exploring until you get some clear sign from her that it's OK to do that. And take it real easy when exploring in the future. Be alert to signs that she is trying to back away or get you to stop what you're doing.
It's not always easy, and a guy's natural instinct is to push things forward; but you've got to be considerate of her feelings in the matter. And be affectionate in other ways, too, not just the physical. Be sure that she knows that you care about HER, not just her body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): You are very young, but it seems like you really want to do this, so my advice to you, is to talk about it with her. Let her know that you care about how she feels and that you have these intimate feelings for her and Ask her how she feels about having sex with you.Make sure to find out if she enjoyed making out with you. If you really love this girl, don't push her into anything,take things slow, i know that you maybe anxious, but just have patience, then both of you can enjoy this when the time is right. Hope that I have been some form of help to you. Best wishes
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (6 April 2007):
 Your still quite young and both of you need to be sure your doing the right thing for the right reasons. Talk to her and see how she feels. Theres nothing wrong with just a bit of fun on the sofa, and will probably make her more at ease going at a pace she enjoys. Theres no need to rush.
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