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Do you think I still have a chance with him? Or have I messed up big time?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear, whoever wishes to help me

im a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well.

we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great.

we watched tele at his for a while the general night in sorta thing.

we both got high...

around 2 oclock i was really tired, so he offered me his bed to sleep in, he then climbed in too i didnt mind but was pretty scarce as i didnt want anything to happen.

anyway as we layed their after about half a hour i thought it over in my head that i wanted to kiss him. i leant over and kissed him, to the pure joy of him kissing back. we played about for abit and then fell asleep holding each other.

about 9-10ish i woke up hugging him i knew he was awake well im about 90% sure he was because he was encouraging me to hug him by moving closer.

when we both got up the atmosphere suddenly because really intense and we both felt really awkward and didnt know what to say to each other.

anyway he dropped me off at the bus stop where he picked me up and we went our separate ways i didnt know what to do when i left his car but something made me want to kiss him bye but i also wanted to go and not make it any worse, so i just went and said goodbye. what else could i actually have done?

we talked on msn later on and i asked him if he regreted anything? he replied sort off, it was a bit weird. i replied that i thought so too which i did as i didnt really expect to do that.

but we have both came to a conclusion of forgetting that it happened. it isnt a problem forgetting but it will always be their.

anyway i want to know, do you think i still have a chance with him? or have i messed up big time?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008):

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I rang him today, and asked him out on Tuesday, he said he didn't know what he is doing for Tuesday so I just need to ask him on the day... so far so good ? :l then there was an awkward silence on the phone before he said he will talk to me later and said bye.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

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i was pleased with what happened and he was i think in a way, just i think it was too soon and we both didnt expect it.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

Well the fact that you both cuddled up in bed, kissing and had a great night, and that was not a pleasant experience for you but instead felt really awkward makes me wonder if you were better off just staying friends.

Or it could be a side effect from being high.

Meet up, don't get high and see if you have any chemistry.

Good Luck!! xx

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