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writes:me and my fiancee broke up a few weeks ago, but we have been talking all this time..when he talks to me he says he misses me and wants to be see me, so i bought a plane ticket to go see him thinking we could work things out, but then he calls me two days later and says I shouldn't go where he is, that even though he misses me and wants to see me, he doesnt want me to think that we are going to fix things. he also said the love he had for me is not as big as before. THEN few days later he says I should still go there and that we can fix our relationship, that he is not going to change his mind and that he didn't know what he was thinking when he told me all that. He mentioned he has been dealing with a lot of stress and it mostly had to do with us breaking up....I am little confused in knowing what he wants... Do you think I should still go there to see him or cancel the ticket and wait to see what he does?
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reader, lotty83  +, writes (22 June 2008):
2 things! He's either confused and doesn't know what he wants, or he's being dumb and doesn't want anyone else to have you. One thing I do know is if he really wants you he would get off his backside and come to you, if you do the running now hun you will be running forever.
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reader, Midge + ♥, writes (22 June 2008):
 Quite honestly if it were me, I'd be thinking that he obviously said what he felt at the time, so there must be some truth to what he said. The fact that he has changed his mind doesnt forgive him for what he said.
If it were me, I'd cancel my ticket and if he wants to sort things out, then he can come to me.
There may just be a chance of you sorting things out, but you gave him an olive branch and then he just threw it right back at you. Seriously, if he wants to get back with you and sort things out, let him do a little grovelling first. Dont give in so easily.
Thats just my opinion.
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