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writes:I had to wait in a queue for half hour or so yesterday and got randomly chatting to this guy who was also waiting.during the conversation he told me 2 or 3 times he was single,divorced, asked if I was.We kept chatting till it was my turn to be seen and as I left he told me it was great meeting and to take care.I liked him which is rare, he was just my type,age,I know where he lives and works as he told me.Now I wish I had been a bit more flirty but am out of practice and I am kicking myself,I dont want to stalk the guy but not sure what to do, do you think I have missed my chance or is it worth being somewhere by "accident"on the chance I will bump into him? Or is that desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): He gave you all the information to "bump" into him by accident. At our age you need to take the chance and go for it. If he said no then at least you tried. If you never try you will never know........set it on fire! Go for it!! This could be your chance to meet someone awesome, someone exciting and someone to call your own.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 January 2013):
 Not desperate just enterprising...Go for it girlfriend.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 January 2013):
 Why does it have to be accidental? If he dropped hints at how you can find him later, why not drop by and ask him out?? It's not desperate! You're interested in him, and you want to date him. Nothing wrong about that!
Just go get him, and let us know how it goes!
Good luck, I'm crossing my fingers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): HiIf you know her he works then arrange another "accidental" meeting. NOthing ventured nothing gained.
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reader, Ilha  +, writes (28 January 2013):
Dear OP,
We are in the same age group, and my take on this is, go for it. You know some details about him. Look for his office number and call him, less embarrassing, if he is not interested. If it was me, I am very bold. I would go to his office, say hi and ask if he has time for lunch. If he says no, I would then ask what days are you available for lunch. Well, everyone is different. So my dear go and try your luck. who cares about being desperate. At this age, live your life. Good luck my dear.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (28 January 2013):
I don't think it sounds too desperate, maybe it's even romantic to some people. For future reference, if someone asks if you're seeing anyone, that's a red flag that if you're interested you should give a clear sign. Sometimes it's hard for men to be so bold, but it doesn't hurt for you to help out!
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reader, R1  +, writes (28 January 2013):
 As long as it looks accidental, then why not! Sometimes you have to make your own luck in life. If it doesn't work out then what have you lost?! I say give it a go...
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reader, llifton +, writes (28 January 2013):
 hahaha, it is a little desperate, but so what? it's worth a shot. why not? seems to me he may be interested. worst case he says no. good luck!
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