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female
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anonymous
writes:My ex left me for someone over 4 months ago now, moved on with someone else.The other day he turned round to me and said i've been a bad husband and a bad dad...do u think he thinks his made a mistake? Reply to this Question |
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reader, stem1981 +, writes (22 August 2007):
I think that he probally has realised that the grass is not always greener on ther other side. They say it takes males more time to realise when they've lost something. Sounds like his grieveing may have only just started for real as he jumped into a relationship too soon after leaving you (Or maybe even before leaving you).
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 I think he realizes that he was a bad husband and father but he didn't say he made a mistake about leaving, just that he knows it hurt you and the kid(s). Don't take it for more than just an admission of guilt.
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (22 August 2007):
 Hi
He probably just means exactly what he said? that he was a bad dad & husband. Doesnt mean he thinks hes made a mistake. There must of been something very wrong for him to actually leave for someone else.
I wouldnt be wondering what he means though anyway. Why would you want someone that has no problem lying.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, Dazzerg + ♥, writes (22 August 2007):
 I think it very much sounds that way however I am wondering if this raised hopes in you that he may well get back with you?? I think for your own emotional well being you need to try and avoid getting blown hither and tither and try to focus on licking your own wounds. Hope that helps. Take care :).
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