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Do you think he could have cheated on me?

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Question - (28 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2011)
A age 30-35, * writes:

hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a folded up condom wrapper on the floor near my kitchen....and Im wondering still what to think.

I need someone honest with me and not just tell me things to shut me up or whatever...Ok well I unfolded the wrapper and it had tons and tons of white lines in it and it didnt feel like a new wrapper it wasnt shiny at all it was dull and felt weird on my fingers. I asked him about it and it said he didnt know where it came from I asked if it was his and he said "no babe" then i argued with him that he cheated on me and he said he didnt over and over again and he still swears he didnt.

When I found that wrapper that day he asked ME if it was MINE! and I dont know what to think because he use to live in this apartment with his mom and he hasnt lived in this apartment for 2 yrs the apt was for the bank to take they filed bankruptcy on it and left it. So me and him lived in his moms house for awhile and moved in the apt. all teh furniture was left there I went up stairs in his old bed room and under that bed was about 5 old condom wrappers and i flipped out they were from his ex so i cleaned them up he put one wrapper he was holding from teh floor in his pocket and hugged me and explained everything.

But months ago I go down starirs and find that wrapper. part of me says he didnt do it because he loves me and if he did cheat he would of left me because i accuse him alot and he could of left by now. He paid for a plane ticket from FL to NJ for me so he could be with me I was living with my mom and she was arrested for attacking me and etc...she bought alot of drama in my life she abused me when i was younger.

He could of left me there with my mother but he put up with that crap for ME.he didnt leave me there. what do you guys think?

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A female reader, kandykane United States +, writes (29 November 2011):

Probably not

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