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Do you know any married men that have managed to stay faithful?

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Question - (25 August 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2009)
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Do you all know of any married guys who are faithful?

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A female reader, LoveIsRough United States +, writes (12 September 2009):

LoveIsRough agony auntI know so many married man who are ages 20 to 77 who all have been faithful to their wives....Come on, let's get real here. Not everyone has cheated on their partner.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

based on this question, i asked my husband whether he has ever been unfaithful to me in our almost 18 years together. his simple asnwer was NO, and i believe him. (but he also asked me tongue in cheek whether i was getting worried since his father and his brother have been cheats)

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A female reader, dr.2.be United States +, writes (28 August 2009):

dr.2.be agony auntI know my dad has been faithful and my uncle as well!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

I don't know of a single affair in all the men in my family. Both sides. That's at least half a dozen.

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A male reader, cheated Australia +, writes (26 August 2009):

well i am 100% faithful to my wife of 15yrs together. on the down side i know she has been unfaithful to me..

nowadays its not just the men who are unfaithful, women are just as unfaithful as men can be..

l have been basically invited a couple of times with the opertunity of sex with married ladies and the basically frowned at me when l told them i wasnt interested in betraying my marriage.. these ladies dont talk to me anymore even though i work with them.

no loss to me as if there was ever going to be temptation it is all but gone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

I know my dad has been faithful. Beyond him I don't really know any married men.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

i know a lot of men who i believe have been faithful to their wives. I have a host of close acquaintances and family who are not flirty, etc with other women, however they are friendly. My dad was faithful to my mother for 34 years (til death did part), my husband has been faithful to me for 27 yrs (next month), thru some very tough years, and my son has been faithful to his wife for 4 years now. I do know as many or more that havent been faithful to their wives, for example my father~in~law has been unfaithful to all three of his wives! But it can be done if a man makes up his mind to be! This goes for wives also. As a wife i know that there are ways to make it easier or harder for a husband to be faithful. .and its not always easy, and some spouses just wont be faithful no matter how hard their mate tries.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

I'd say about 50 percent. One out of every 2. Same with women.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

There are a range of definitions for "faithful". Some depict a man (or a woman) that has a robotic mind as someone that is faithful. A robotic mind is someone that pushes aside their natural human emotions and instincts and force themselves to focus on their partner, often bottling up and fermenting their negative feelings.

Eg: some men and women believe that once two people (or in some cases, more than two) come together intimately, the other partner should never look at another person sexually, attractively and never need friends with anyone else, never need to have other best friends, never need to confide in anyone else, never need anyone else other than their partners.

In other words, absolute control or absolute submission.

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Another definition of being faithful is simply staying together intimately, with all the benefits of friendship, love, togetherness while maintain connections with other people of both genders. Of course, as you can see it seems that this web site has the extremes that lean more toward the first definition. As if all intimate connections should immediately and automatically sever the person's ties to being human.

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As for do I know of any married men that are faithful? Obviously that would be my father, my grand father on my dad's side, my two uncles on my mom's side, my mentor, my current client's husband, my two married friends and a myriad of other people. I also know three unfaithful men - two married-in uncles on my mom's side and an associate.

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Ultimately, what is your definition of unfaithful/faithful?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI know quite a few...I'm positive...well I'm pretty sure..I think

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2009):

Yep.

Most are actually.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

For how long?

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