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writes:need input on suspicious occurances by my g/f .our relationship has lasted ten+ years we have two children and were engaged but called it off .all along things have been kinda obvious but with no hard evidence she wont aknowledge the signs i see .two recent examples are ,1.a gift of lace panties and flip flop shoes in a bag with tags her story is this and by the way she gave it with out me asking ahe says her sister gave them to her cuz they were the wrong size. .2.found an extra condom that i am sure i did not purchase by the way not the first time condoms have been a mystery to her as to unexplained wrappers or misplaced ones.our sex life has been decent and we are pretty close on an adult way .she surprises me sumtimz though w/her coldness on random issues.she has lied b 4 and stuck by her lie lik a champ then blewup wen she got her story mixed up. let me have it people all opinions needed .
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Condom wrappers? Yes she is cheating.
Leave a few condom wrappers around for her to find and see if she 1. asks you what the hell is going on? 2. gets rid of them because she thinks they are her's.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Commons sense would suggest that she's cheating. It's the empty condom wrappers that tell all really. They're being used somewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Unexplained condom wrappers lying around??? That merits at least a thorough session of intense questioning. The odds are at least 50/50 that she is indeed doing things behind your back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif you were in my shoes what would common sense lead one to conclude
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 July 2010):
There's not enough proof to be sure. But there's enough for me to say that you need to pay more attention to her. If there have been unexplained wrappers or missing condoms, they're going somewhere. She has also lied before. And then she got her story mixed up. If there is something going on, you need to quiet about finding it out, because she's not going to tell you. But if you're finding unexplained condom wrappers, something's happening. But you need to be quiet and find out another way other than asking her. She won't tell.
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