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writes:Hi,Is he serious with his flirting or am I just being made fun of? I think this younger man age 28 seems to like me. He is always trying to make me laugh and he goes out of his way to stand next to me and tease me....he talks to me at work about non-work topics and personal things about him....he sat down next to me and talked to me for 45 minutes about a variety of things to include questions about me...and he seems to care when I am down and tries to make me smile.I catch him looking at me, and sometimes when I say something to the group he just smiles to himself, he does not do this with any of the other girls, but he is a flirty guy, so I am not sure he is serious or just having some fun with me....but I am starting to act embarassed when he does this and I think it is obvious that he is winning me over.He is very funny,and sometimes he play fights with me over things....he has not asked me out though so I don't know if I am just being made a fool of.He did a couple of strange things last week, he left his business card on my desk with all of his contact information on it, but he did not give one to the other folks that I could see....once he walked by my desk in ear shot of others and asked "are you mad at me?' When I said No, why, he asked "don't you like me?" During that conversaton he said that he could date someone at work if he wanted to, that our company couldn't control who he might fall in love with, but of course she would have to be on another team...and I said oh, I thought someone got fired for that, and then he started talking about law suits and how he could be personally sued, so I sort of jokingly said, yeah, I want to file a sexual harassment suit against you so I hope you have deep pockets, but then I said not really this job would not be worth that....so I don't know where he is going with this, or if he just has trust issues with me or if he is fishing to see what I think about him coming on to me like he does....What do you think, could he be serious or is he just playing around, I am quite a bit older than he is, but I think I look better than some of the women half my age that we work with...
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reader, LISAG +, writes (20 December 2006):
 I reckon he's definitely interested. Keep playing it cool yet friendly and he will get round to asking you out. All the things you've said suggest great interest to me. I think you will have a good result. Why don't you say something like "you've been flirting with me for a while now, I was wondering when you were going to ask me out?". This conveys confidence and directness on your part, he should respond well to this, if he dosen't then there's your answer ! Be ready for rejection just in case ! I don't think you will be dispointed personally.
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