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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together six yrs recently we dont have sex often and when we did he would cum very quickly we had sex for the first time in two wks and he lasted forever until i finally gave up is he cheating and having sex else where Reply to this Question
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reader, like I see it +, writes (18 May 2015):
 With the additional information you have given, his behavior does sound suspicious.
Before you accuse him of anything, though (as that will only make him defensive and more careful about hiding things if he has something to hide) I would talk to him about the changes you've noticed. Let him know you've observed that he is acting differently and ask if everything is okay, or if something is bothering him. If he has an explanation, this is where he'll provide it.
If he has no credible explanation for the sudden changes in his behavior and he doesn't return to acting more normally (for him) after you point them out, then yes, I think you are quite right to be concerned about what he is up to.
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reader, rday +, writes (17 May 2015):
rday is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay we had sex everyday up until a couple of weeks ago, when he wasn't even noticing me. He would take off without saying nothing. Stay gone from daylight til dawn and somedays no less then five hours, come back in a awful mood. No conversation, and sex between us just didnt seem to cross his mind. When it just did all the time and would never mention about it. So i started staying some nights with my dad, and some nights with my boyfriend. The nights i stayed he would come back at dark, ask if i'm going to stay. If i did stay he would act so funny about taking a shower. I've never mentioned how quick he cums because i would be pleasured as well. It's happened twice in two weeks of us trying, and he kept making excuses of why he was lasting so long, when i wouldn't even mention anything about it.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (17 May 2015):
If you don't have sex often, he may have gotten used to masturbating, which would feel different than "real sex" and might make it harder for him to climax with you...
He might have masturbated RECENTLY and been in a refractory period, but not mentioned this because you have sex so rarely and he didn't want to turn you down...
He might be taking male enhancement pills to help him last longer, especially if you've mentioned to him in the past that he "cums quickly"...
Without knowing your boyfriend and the particulars of your situation, it's hard to say.
But unless there are other indicators that he might be cheating that you haven't mentioned here, this one incident isn't proof of anything untoward.
Hope this helps. Good luck and best wishes!
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