A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently i was rejected by a girl from going on a date due to the fact she had a boyfriend. However, after some searching, i found that this was a lie. It really sucks that she lied and i was wondering if this happens often e.g guys get rejected and given false reasons.thanks Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): prove to yourself that you can deal with rejection. If it happens just say to yourself oh look at that she rejected me. Have the realization, her rejecting you will not effect your life in any way. Go through the cycle build a little case or arguement in your mind, experience it, prove it, and move on to the next girl.
A
male
reader, chlez83  +, writes (3 December 2007):
Don't bother your brain about finding the reason.Sometimes girls have no clear reason for ending things apart from the fact that they no longer love you and they can't tell you directly.You need to be careful next time and not rush into an affair but take time to develop each other's feelings.Just be strong and move on.Some girls will dump you for sillier reasons.Atleast she lied abit better.Take care.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): Yes unfortunately it happens. I myself have been guilty of that before, and I've had it done to me by men also. I don't know if it helps you or not, but twice when I did it was just because I was feeling blue, and didn't have the energy to put into a relationship, and it was just easier to say I had a boyfriend than to explain. Don't worry about it to much.
...............................
A
male
reader, gogland  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 It's very common. Girls usually use this as a rejection because they feel it won't hurt your feelings.You can at least thank her for being considerate enough to try and not hurt your ego on this one.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): I guess it depends on the person. Some people will be straight-forward and truthful while others will lie - probably to spare your feelings. It seems like this is what this girl did. I know that its worse that she lied but don't dwell on it too much. She was probably trying not to hurt your feelings so forgive her.
Life will have its ups and downs. You win some, you lose some. Try to move on with your life now - concentrate on the good things that happen, but learn from the past.
Keep smiling and stay positive! x
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): I am sure this happens every day, she was trying to spare your ego. Get used to this, you are going to get rejected more often than not, life is full of rejection, the answer is to forgive others for it, and to know in your heart that this is about them and not about you.....build your confidence up, and then rejection will just be a blip on your otherwise fantastic day.
...............................
|
