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Do men judge a woman/potential girlfriends by how much money she has?

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Question - (12 May 2015) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2015)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Do men judge a woman/potential girlfriends by how much money she has?

I'm a 26 year old who does simply okay for myself, nothing great. I don't drive an expensive car (my car is 8 years old)

or wear brand name clothing or expensive jewelry, and I live in a simple cheap apartment outside of town. I just can't afford much and I'm not by any means wealthy, but I get by.

I was wondering how men judge a woman's financial situation. I know some women tend to go for men who are well off to feel financially secure for starting a family, but do men think the same way about a woman?

I just feel like I don't have much to offer a man financially, I don't want him to feel embarrassed of me, you know?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2015):

not even close to as much as the other way around

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (13 May 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI always remember those sage words that I heard from my Father,... those oh-so-many years ago: "Son.... it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich girl as a poor one...."

Never forgot 'em.......

BUT, have found out that the rich girls seem to be a bigger handful....

Good luck...

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A male reader, Garbo United States +, writes (12 May 2015):

Garbo agony auntFinances don't matter to the guy as long as you are not mismanaging like raking up debt. Too much of fancy brand names and dolling up is sometimes a turn off for guys who are more practical and are not looking for a trophy wife. Not being a nag, getting to the point and knowing how to finish a sentence are more important then how much money you have.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (12 May 2015):

Honeypie agony auntThe fact that you have your own place, your own car AND a job I think means more than you dressing like you had millions.

The fact that you CARRY yourself would be a big plus.

I don't think men look at women as providers in the same was as SOME women look at men. But dating someone who is independent and financial is a great thing, no matter the gender.

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