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Do it today...you never know what's around the corner....

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Article - (30 April 2008) 7 Comments - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, sofiamorgan writes:

If you're mad at someone and nobody's there to fix the situation...You fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if you don't, tomorrow can be too late.

If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know...tell him/her. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you and if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late.

If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you...tell him/her. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell him/her today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you need a hug from a friend...ask him/her for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you really have friends who you appreciate...tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and the leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them...do it. Maybe you have them thereto show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, and then tomorrow can be too late.

So do it today, because you never know what's around the corner....

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (9 May 2008):

BigSis agony auntJust wanted you to know that I class you all as Potty friends!!!

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream..

'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.'

The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'

'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.'

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

SO, to all of my friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path!

Big'CrackPot'Sis

xXx

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom + , writes (5 May 2008):

sofiamorgan is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sofiamorgan agony auntWell I thought its true, you never know whats around the corner so you should make the most of everyday!

Thank you for all of your comments, BigSis thank you for all of your input, it was all relevant and gave me some food for thought!

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A female reader, VegasGirl15 United States + , writes (5 May 2008):

VegasGirl15 agony auntOMG this has made me try to make it up with my friend, We recently had a fight about somthing stupid and I told myself I wasn't going to talk to her and she would have to say sorry to me first and then after I read this I was like wow your right you never know whats around the corner. I might not be here tomorrow or she might not be her tomorrow and it wud be a real same to end things that way ....

*~VG~*

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (1 May 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntSofia,

This is a great article! Thanks for posting it, and BigSis, you've added some really great nuggets of wisdom too. Thanks for the lift!

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (1 May 2008):

BigSis agony auntSorry if I'm gate crashing your thread, Sophia, but I thought this very appropriate for this page:

~*~*~*~

Around the corner I have a friend

In this great city that has no end,

Yet the days go by and weeks rush on,

And before I know it, a year is gone.

And I never see my old friends face,

For life is a swift and terrible race,

He knows I like him just as well,

As in the days when I rang his bell.

And he rang mine but we were younger then,

And now we are busy, tired men.

Tired of playing a foolish game,

Tired of trying to make a name.

'Tomorrow' I say! 'I will call on Jim

Just to show that I'm thinking of him.'

But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes,

And distance between us grows and grows.

Around the corner, yet miles away,

'Here's a telegram sir,' 'Jim died today.'

And that's what we get and deserve in the end.

Around the corner, a vanished friend.

~*~*~*~

Please remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, tell them ~ because by the time you finally decide that it is the right time ~ it might be too late.

BigSis

xXx

Seize the day. Never have regrets.

And most importantly, stay close to your friends

and family, for they have helped

make you the person that you are today.

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A female reader, LJ001 United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

LJ001 agony auntLovely :] quite uplifting really.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (1 May 2008):

BigSis agony auntNobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?

If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

You can only go as far as you push!

Actions speak louder than words.

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.

Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.

Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.

Some people make the world special by just being in it.

Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.

True friendship never ends.

Friends are forever.

Good friends are like stars....you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

Don't frown, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end. Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.

If u love something...let it go.

If it comes back to you its yours....

If it doesn't then it never was.

A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love. A hug is just a huguntil its from the one ur thinking of. A dream is just a dream until u make it come true. LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.

Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes. Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.

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