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writes:I've just recently split with someone that I was with since April. We ended on good terms but he said that he doesn't want to be with me because his heads all over at the minute. I've told him that I want to be here to support him and we'll get through it together but he doesn't seem to want thatI love him and I don't want this to be the end but I don't know what to do for the best. Do I walk away and let everything go even though I still love him and can't stop thinking about him or do I fight for him. I just don't know what to do for the best. I need some advice.Thank you Kind regards Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 December 2016):
 You might not want to but you need to accept that it is over. Nobody wants someone not letting them go and clinging on. I do understand how hard this is at your age, but it gets easier as you get older. He does not want to be with you any more. Therefore you need to accept that and let go. Try and avoid him and move on.
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reader, KrisTaylor +, writes (14 December 2016):
I remember being your age and doing the exact same thing. I was young and didn't know what I wanted out of life. It seemed that I was being pulled from all sides, and I just needed a break to figure out who I was.If he is the same age as you, I would say that is probably what is going on, although I can't say with certainty. Only what I know from experience.I think that if he needs time to figure some things out, you should give him that space. And if you still love him when he has all of it figured out? Then you can possibly try again. In the meantime I would suggest just being friends and letting him know that you will be there if he needs you, just as a friend. Hopefully that helps!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (12 December 2016):
 If you were older and had been together longer, I'd suggest trying to help him through it. However, as a younger couple who haven't been together long, I think it's best to let him find himself alone.
If you can be friends, without wanting more from him, that would be nice, but most people can't do that and still move on, so it's understandable if you need to let go completely.
Respect what he wants and let him go. You'll be okay, it gets easier.
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