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writes:i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him.we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noramly do this once a week but this time if felt diffrent its hard to exsplane but i just knew that something was going to happen.anyway was way we was messing about playfighting when we fell backwards with me on top we looked into each others eyes then we started kissing one thing lead to another and we spent the night together, we have started going out and things are going great i took the test when i realised i was late and it was possitive. i know he has told me in the past that he couldnt wait to be a dad when older. should i tell him im pregnant?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): hi all its me im back with my follow up 1st thank you all to yr sound advice and for all the congratulashions.
when i told him he was shocked but exstimly happy he said that he would be there for me no matter what happance,
he was there where we told my mum and dad they said they are disapointed in me but are going to stick my me.
we (me and him) know its early but we are already picking out baby names and starting saveing up. he cant wait to be a dad,and being a mum is realy going to be a woundaful exspirence for me i know that there will be the ood down moment and stressull day but i know with him by my side it will be all worth it i will write you all soon to let you all know how its all going thanks aghin :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012): It takes two to tango, honey. Tell him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 of course you tell him... it's his baby too
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 March 2012):
 You should tell him.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Yes of course. You guys are friends, one day things happen. Now you are pregnant, do you think he wants you scared, frightened and alone. Tell him first and if he can't help, (because he might be scared) then go and tell your mother.
As a friend and the babies father he's probably the best support you've got right now. You tell him everything remember, you can tell him this. It's a problem/blessing for both of you. It's his baby too.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Of course you should ! It's also HIS baby , so is it very much his business too, whwther you decide to keep the baby and raise it together, or not.
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reader, cathysmith07 +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Of course! It's his right to know what happened. Also for you to get his support emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially.
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reader, Cole Turner  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 You have to tell the father that you are pregnant! you need to make a few serious decisions though ... are you going to keep the baby? whatever you decide you will really need his and his families support. Tell him before you tell anyone else, he deserves to know first.
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reader, dr.2.be +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Yes!! Tell him you are pregnant. It is good that it seems like he is excited about being a dad, and hopefully he sticks to it. He should be there for you during your pregnancy and for the child once he/she is born.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): yes
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