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Do I need to achieve more so I can get who I desire?

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Question - (12 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I got this problem. I like beautiful girls! lol Outer beauty isn't the only thing, but higher status guys definitely go after them. My looks are 8-9. That doesn't mean a lot to women who look just as good though. So I was wondering, do I need to build my status higher than it is so I have a chance of attracting these beauties? For sex, and relationships too of course! I would say my status is around the median. These types of women always go with high status men in the media, and in real life, I assume guys with hot girls are way better than average. I want to be a real ladies man who can keep who he wants! :)

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (12 June 2011):

cupidus agony auntYou'll never be a ladies man if you think you get to KEEP who you WANT !

Whoa... it's all about class, and class is not just good looks and 6 figures. It's about character, ideals, and self respect. I could go on..

You can dress it up all you want and chances are good you'll also have as much of a surfaced RS as the shirt on your back.

However confidence can be learned but style is personal and has to be discovered. You can't be a cut out copy of the medias idea of a man magnet.

In the end it will have to be for the good of all people kind.

Nothing is hotter than a man of dedication and perseverance and tuff as shit endurance. Whether it's defining the 11th dimension or swimming the English Chanel. Of course there is Robert Downey Jr. but ooops that's against my religion. LOL

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (12 June 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntDress nice, get a cool expensive car, have a well paying job.

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