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Do I love my ex husband? Sex made it worse.

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Question - (29 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2008)
A female , *msocute01 writes:

Ok this one might be a little tough, but here I go! I been divorced for almost 5 years now. I left him becasue I wasn't ready ( I was only 19), I know yes that was wrong of me.

So a week ago he moved back to his hometown, where I'm at also. We were hanging out and stuff then ended up having sex, now Im getting this weird vibe from him. I mean he tells me he still has love for me. But ever since we had sex things haven't been the same! I don't know what to do anymore because I still do love.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 May 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI'm not sure I understand your situation correctly.

It seems to me that you divorced your husband a long time ago, you two had your relationships, and then you met again, started talking and had sex. That is more or less clear. Then, you mention that "things are not the same since you had sex". I suppose that means that he's become colder. I don't like speculations, but that's what it seems. Still, I wouldn't know if things have become colder as in "I'm more comfortable with you", or colder as in "I can't be bothered". If it's the latter, well, you have thought correctly: leave him.

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A female reader, imsocute01 +, writes (1 May 2008):

imsocute01 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

imsocute01 agony auntWell Our relationship hasn't really changed we were friends before we got married, and we are still friends now. I think Im really gonna just push him to the side, Im tired of playing his games. But thanks anyways

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 May 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI mean, how has the relationship changed?

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A female reader, imsocute01 +, writes (30 April 2008):

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imsocute01 agony auntWell he did get remarried after our divorce, but he just recently got another divorce from her! And for me I had a child to another man, but we are no longer together! I mean we are still friends but I don't want it to be "just friends" I want more. I don't think I ever loved a man so much.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (30 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI think we would need more information here. How have things changed between you two?

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