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writes: Hi.. I think I'm falling for this guy, except he has a girlfriend! I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it, knowing that he had liked me before he had a girlfriend. I think im falling for him more BECAUSE he has a girlfriend now and that I can't have him! I'm not even sure if this means I like him - or just because I can't have him!What can I do? Can I still try?? Is it possible that he could still like me even though he's with his girlfriend? (I know it's unfair to his girlfriend ..but...) or should I just move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): hey two ways u can look at this.
you could really like him but just didnt know it then, but now that u see him with someone you feel as if he could have been yours. but i guess he never told u that he like u. the other way u can look at it is, you dont really like him but your crushing on him and seeing that he has someone you wanna plug in an get it a chance.
To do that means you are not really into him and you will look bad in the end. But if you wanna know if you really like him, just tell him how you feel and see how he acts, it he responds to u badly and u get pist offf then u didnt really like him, but if it hurts you so bad then know that you really cared. In life we need to go after what we want. jus do it smart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): Hey im the girl who asked this question..
Thats the thing..i'm not really quite sure if i really DO like him...or cos i can't have him. Any ideas of how i can test myself?? if my feelings are true? =S
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 It's possible that you want him because you can't have him or him getting with somebody has made you realise precisely what your feelings are. You have to think to yourself 'if i tried to get him and got him is it possible I wouldnt want him anymore?' If the answer to that is yes then you would not just be unfair to his current partner but also him.
Before you do anything or even think about it you have to be sure of how you feel. You can still try if you are prepared to accept the consequences of your actions and the fact that it could cause alot of heartache. It is possible he still likes you but like i say, it is an awful big risk and nothing is sure. Hope that helps.
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