A
female
age
13-15,
LoveObsession
writes:I really seem to hate this girl in my class.She's really nasty towards me and gets everybody on her side. It feels like i hate her to pieces then.....so suddenly i realise im looking at her in a different way....I've heard the saying 'treat em mean keep em keen'but this girls a little to evil!!!And its not like i daydream about her...i just have such mixed feelings!Does anybody else feel the same? Reply to this Question |
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female
reader, need help here i am +, writes (26 October 2007):
i no exactly wot u mean there is a girl like that in my year and im the same as you i just find it easier to get along with them or just stand up to them and tell them out right what you think i no that they can be really mean but really nice they allways have to have the riight answer but whatever they say just say right ok and move on to a differ subject i hope this helps bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Girls often have crushes at this age on the "popular girl". But it is a teenage girls crush and nothing more.
I think some of what you may be feeling is that you want this girl to be nice to you and it is confusing you that she gives you attention, but not nice attention. She is just trying to get all the girls to think she's special!
Ignore her. Be yourself and don't let her upset you. Friendships and best mates change all the time at your age and I would not be worried that this will last for ever. The more you react to her evil behaviour the more she gets out of it.
It sounds like she is a bit of a bully. Don't worry about everyone being on her side, it is not a nice side anyway!
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