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writes:I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. and she had a thing for me for a really long time and i was always attracted to her. we started dating and everything was going well until halloween when something happened (its a long story but as a quick summary she ended up going with her friends instead of me and my friends) after that it started going downhill and we fought alot and i remember it got so bad we fought almost every day. then she started hanging out with her friends more and she met a number of guys and old friends.so the first guy was someone named Matt. i never liked him because before i know he used to talk to her drunk and ask her for a blow job and while we were going out i heard he asked her over for a drink. when i heard about that i asked her to not talk to him and she agreed. the second guy was someone named gerardo who she met at a party and she got his number.the third guy was someone named emin who she met at this convention and he drove her home and once again she got his number.now the fourth problem is actually two guys who are her friends, named jonathan and alex. so a few days ago she started confessing all these things that happened months ago. (the things i just explained.) apparently she lied and still talked to matt and hanged out with him a few times. she flirted with gerardo through text and asked him if he wanted to hook up with her. (her reason for doing this was to get over me because we were fighting so much) she then also confessed that she knew emin had a thing for her and she didn't care and just kept in contact with him. and for the final part she was playing truth or dare with jonathan and alex and some other friends and jonathan dared her to kiss alex. and she did. all this happened during october - febuary. after i heard about this i left her. but now she's telling me she's changed and she regrets doing this to me. but i don't think i want to get back with someone who would cheat without any hesitation just because someone told her to. can you guys help me get over her?
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (18 July 2010):
Wait did she cheat four times? If she did while she was flirting and having sex with these guys, did you enter her mind once? Probably not because she had sex with four guys, not one but four guys in four months..and you want to get back with her? Why? Four guys she sleep with, trust is gone, and you'll always be wondering what she's up to away from you. I'm sorry dude move on. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): She is likely to be the same with the next one she gets with. A period of pain is better than a lifetime of it. Get rid.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 No, I won't go back to her. She can get drunk and have Matt. Actually have you thought about what happened between February and July? How many guys had she been with? She only regrets it when none of the guys won't be her boyfriend. She only regrets it if you take her back. After you say no, she's back in her old ways, as if that's the only way to find a guy. I think you will quickly get over her by imagining what Matt and her did together.
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reader, Aunt_Rita +, writes (18 July 2010):
Dear anonymous writer,
Please take this advice and do not have your hopes for the future with this person with all due respect to her.
She is not the one for you.
You will find someone who will see you as an amazingly caring person, who needs your heart, will cherish the relationship and above all not take the relationship for granted.
Have patience, be positive, chin up - life is beautful
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