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writes: I am getting way too much obsessed about sex as i am getting near to my engagement. I don't know whether this is true, but my family members, especially my elder brother and father seem to have a concept of "marriage = abundance of sex" and it means nothing else. I think otherwise. For me sex is a part of it, but there is a lot more to it. Personally i am not so much excited about the sex thing, but my family members seem to be imposing their own overwhelming feelings on them and their pressure is getting on to my head. I sometimes doubt if i belong to a family of sexually obsessed maniacs. How do i prevent myself from getting under such narrow mindset of others around me? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (17 February 2007):
 I would just laugh off anything they say to you. At the end of the day it's between you and your partner what happens. Have you been intimate with her yet? How long have you been together? When are you getting engaged?
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reader, SUE7 +, writes (17 February 2007):
Hello,I am overwhelmed that your family see you as an attractive girl, who is now about too get married so I wouldn't take the Sex thing to heart you can confined in your Fianbce that he has a personal life with you but don't be put off if other family members want what's best for you and thinks you like it spiced up!! i.e. relationship or sex but if you haven't told your mum well or dad who is about to walk you down the (ailse) about your sex life don't worry because I'm sure your brothers or sister will say I wish it were me oh you look georgeous! Go girl go!! Bestman, Bridesmaide love it I just got married myself last yearXX
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