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Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

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Question - (24 February 2017) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2017)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online?

We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I think that I need to ask her.

However, I don't know if I want to ask her out online or in person as I myself am fearful to ask her in person, but I also fear that If I ask her online I won't make the right impression to her.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 March 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntHonestly it really is best to ask her out in person. I do understand it is scary. But you will make a much better impression. Good luck and let us know how you get on.

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A male reader, rasblak Singapore +, writes (25 February 2017):

To keep this simple, in order of preference:

i) in person

ii) on the phone

iii) online

A relevant question you might want to consider when asking her out:

What are you asking her out for? *Whom* should you make it about when you go out?

Call me stupid, but at 14 years of age, I felt I wanted a girlfriend, yet I did not know the first thing about what I wanted a girlfriend for.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (25 February 2017):

CindyCares agony aunt In person. Absolutely.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (25 February 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntIf you fear you will not make the right impression online I would ask her in person. Make it very light and casual so as not to spook her. Just something like, "Heh, fancy a coffee sometime?" or have a chat about a film you want to see. If she expresses interest in seeing it too, ask if she wants to go with you.

Good luck.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (25 February 2017):

Honeypie agony auntI'd ask her in person. No matter if she is shy or not.

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