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Do I act on these feelings for a male friend?

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Question - (22 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *onfused999 writes:

I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend (wanting to rub cocks/jack him off).

Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship-wise or should I act on my feelings? Sometimes, after a party, we sleep together in his double bed.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntgo for it if the situation presents itself-it may be a simple urge that you can get out of your system.

either way sex with friends often spells doom for the friendship or at least makes things awkward and opens up too much. unless it does develop into a full relationship.

be wise and use some longterm judgement

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A male reader, coldmist182 United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

coldmist182 agony aunt:|... dont listen to that! ur a teenager, its what we do best, EXPERIMENT lol but dont go too far or u could ruin your friendship

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A male reader, evas United States +, writes (22 June 2008):

Fight those thoughts, ideas and suggestions. Your straight, don't act on them. It might be the biggest regret of your life if you did. Guys minds are wild at times, but you don't have to do everything you think of.Focus your mind on something else and don't meditate on those thoughts. God bless you.

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