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writes:I'm in my mid 20's and I've known I was a squirter since I was about 19/20 due to masturbation. But despite having a couple of sexual partners and previously being married, I have never felt comfortable enough to squirt with any partner despite their encouragement and I have always been able to control it.Until last night with my current partner. He said it was a turn on, but I don't understand how something like that could be attractive or a turn on. Its something that I think is weird and messy and I was quite embarrassed by it but because he is constantly sweet and kindhearted, I'm not sure if he's saying its ok just so my feelings aren't hurt or if some guys really do find it attractive. Any help would be really appreciated :-/
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reader, No watered down advice here!  +, writes (26 March 2014):
 Dear, don't try to fix something that's not broke. I find most men love women that squirt, the wetter the better!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (3 March 2014):
 I am pretty sure that if a guy finds it a turn off, they will speak up and tell you.
My questions is , why do you PRESUME he isn't telling the truth?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 March 2014):
I love it. My wife occasionally squirts and it's great fun.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 March 2014):
 Every guy I've talked to about it says it's a huge turn on, why would he lie about it? What motivation would there be? Just put down some towels.
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (2 March 2014):
 I myself don't like it at all, and to use everybody's word, it's a serious turn off for me. Yet, it obviously depends on everybody taste, and what repulses me may delights another man (no statistic available, so we can imagine is it's 50/50 or anything else, it doesn't matter).
Conclusion: if your boyfriend finds it exciting, let's go for a big show !
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 March 2014):
 I dont see why he would lie.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (2 March 2014):
Dear OP,
I'm bisexual and a squirting woman is a huge turn on for me- I totally believe your partner! Believe his words, too! I love getting everything wet and messy because it shows how much pleasure the woman is feeling!
Besides, if it's NOT a turn on to men... how come there is so much squirting porn out there? Start to enjoy yourself, dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2014): You need to trust us when we say it's a turn on, he wouldn't say it if it wasn't, he'd just say he's not really fond of it. I find it to be awesome but I don't like it spraying all over my face so I do like a bit of warning. The same as the warning a guy gives to a woman during a blow job. But I do love when it happens.
OP we guys are used to sticky, spurting messy juices, in case you hadn't realised we have our own. We're perfectly fine with ours and women's. Most of us anyway.
Do it for him if he asks, maybe do it in the shower first or something, but have a towel nearby and clean sheets ready etc. Just be polite about it, let him know it;s coming and try not to spray his face if he doesn't want that. Some guys love that, so just talk to him.
Seriously though, trust men when we say we're okay with something sexually. Why would we lie? To protect your feelings? that makes no sense seeing as you don't mind the idea of guy's not liking it. You'd be fine and understanding about that so there's no reason why he'd lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2014): Hi, it's a turn on for a guy , cause, he feels that he is really turning you on, it makes a guy feel really good.Cause alot of women, don't get wet.
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