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writes:Do most guys prefer and go for older women, or is it uncommon? See, it would help me a lot with a few things if anyone's got any views on this, thanks xxx Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I am a 27 year old guy. I don't have a problem with older women. Within reason of course. I will date any older woman who will go out with me and have dated some much older than me 40's and 50's and a couple of them were also married. I have learned what buttons to push and with some convincing, I have gotten most into bed. It's funny how some think there is shame involved in having sex with a younger man. I don't see why. Once that is overcome and we get started in bed they can become very passionate. Most are not slim and don't have the firm titties like the younger ones, but they still have a lot to be enjoyed. I think it is also a boost to many's self esteem that a much younger man could be still be interested in them sexually.. If so, that is better yet. We both walk away happy and satisfied. To avoid any embarrassment to her, I never talk about it to my friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): I would have thought everyone is different. I think men and women have an expectation in mind, then life throws something or someone unexpected and wham, that spark is there across ages. I am in my 50s and find myself unexpectedly attracted to a man who is 80. he is far from a doddery old man but emotionally he has it there for me and sexually he has it there too. As for younger men, I have more confidence than I had when I was younger as I was afraid of men, now I can be myself around men I find a surprisingly large amount of men 20 years younger than me respond to a smile as the older ones do. I am not looking for a partner but if I was it seems being the wrong side of middle aged is no setback.
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reader, martini  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 Doesn't matter to me.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 It depends on the woman. I suppose some guys go for an older woman for the experience level but personally its about her altogether. At least for me it is.
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