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Do guys eventually give up if the girl wont have sex with them?

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Question - (3 November 2011) 15 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

do players get turned off by girls who don't want to have sex with them straightaway? surely at some point they lose interest and give up on a girl who won't give them what they want?

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A female reader, PerhapsNot United States +, writes (4 November 2011):

PerhapsNot agony auntMy fiance has waited 4 years, so yes, if a man loves you he will wait. If they can't wait at least 6 months, they're not worth your time.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntplayers will give up

men that want full long term relationships will probably persevere.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011):

If you mess with players then you deserve to get burned. You already know they are players. Ether accept getting played and used for sex or don't mess with them.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011):

Here's the line I use to describe players: Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Meaning, if don't put out, they will move on to the next. If you do put out, they will move on to the next.

My advice is to stop looking at players if you are looking for a long term relationship. You will only get your heart broken. Now, if you ARE just interested in one night stands and flings, then by all means go for the players. In other words, don't ruin the nice guys by playing them.

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A female reader, KittieS United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2011):

KittieS agony auntIf he is a "player" then that means usually he's just looking for a bit of action, and if your not wanting too thens hes going to be off - until he decides he wants to settle down

A guy worth your time will wait :)

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (3 November 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntThe duration of our interest is determined by whether or not we are using the "4 date" routine......

IF we're using "4 date" then we will feign interest until that fourth date.... at which time, it's a sure bet that we're going to get the girl to put out, anyway....

If we're NOT invoking "4 date" then we only persevere for the requisite 3 dates, after which we give up....

Good question....

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (3 November 2011):

Honeygirl agony auntIf all he is interested in is sex and it isnt forthcoming, then yes, he will move onto easier conquests.

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A male reader, Lee jong South Africa +, writes (3 November 2011):

Lee jong agony auntDepends, what reason you don't? No one can stand such situation with out a reasonable answer to that. Sweety

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A male reader, Htsn47 United States +, writes (3 November 2011):

Htsn47 agony auntA guy who is worth your time will not get tired and move on too quickly. Part of the question here is "how much time?" It's impossible to say... depends on the people involved. My gf and I in hs/college dated for three years and never had sex. My current girlfriend and I waited a few months. That's probably a bit unusual too but it felt right to us.

You should not let yourself feel pressured to have sex. If he's worth it, he'll be patient.

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A female reader, xavima United States +, writes (3 November 2011):

Yes they will if its all they want from you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011):

Yes if its only sex he wants. No if its the person inside. Some may carry on and enjoy the challenge but I think N91 has answered it exactly how it is.

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2011):

hannah76 agony auntYes, a player will move on quickly. He wants sex and not 6 months of dates. He will move on and keep moving until he finds sex. Then he will move on regardless again.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (3 November 2011):

chigirl agony auntYes. They get tired and move on.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2011):

N91 agony auntA player will yes, a guy worth your time won't.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011):

Some would leave but there not the relationship type anyways. Do what's best for YOU. good luck!

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