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writes:I was just wondering are there any successfull stories out there in which an ex came back after leaving because of arguments all time. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): Hi, yeah it can happen. My ex and i split up three years ago, because we rowed constantly, we nearly killed each other and rowed over money, sex, bills, my ex, the cleaning. We didn't speak for three years after we split up, except for a couple of emails. Now we're back in contact again, and we've just started seeing each other.
I guess it depends what the arguments were about. We don't row about sex, because we're having it, we don't row about cleaning and bills because we dont live together, we are not under pressure with money anymore, and my ex is now married with a child. The issues aren't there any more, but the chemistry still is and also the fact that time has borne out the fact that we still care about each other. It's not impossible.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Yep exes do come back when they realize what they have let go and what they are missing out on. Just hang in there. You should try and pursue any communication. Call or text him and see from there. If he doesnt then it would be better to just cut your losses and move on (sorry if that sounded harsh). Sometimes there is a reason that you split up. I guess it just depends.
Good Luck,mail me if you wana chat
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reader, greenman  +, writes (22 April 2008):
My g/f of 2 yrs dumped me one day totally out of the blue. I was gobsmacked. Only a month earlier we had been away on a wonderful holiday and had amazing time.She needed break and although she didnt want anyone else, she didn't want me either(Bull).For about 2 months i begged, pleaded for her to give it another go. I said the usual stuff " we are so good together" etc " why you throwing this away" etc I couldnt concentrate at work or even watch tv.I was initiating all the contact
Anyway, eventually I gave up & got on with my life with No Contact. Low and behold about 5 months later and i received a birthday card with a note in it asking how i was and can we meet. We met and got back for another 3 years before we split again for totally different reasons than before
Ok, we didnt work out in the end but after 3 more years there was a chance it could have.I think the motto is 'Back off' & cut contact.It's the only thing that may work IMO. I suppose making your ex wonder what you are upto by not chasing makes a difference?? I don't know? I'd be interested in what others think
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): it can happen, yes!
my parents split almost 2 yrs ago, got a divorce a few months down the line, now my mums always at our place nd shes even spent a few nights with my dad.
one thing i did notice though was she had always worn her wedding ring, even after going through all of that.
well, my parents split due to arguments aplenty and my dad was a drunk.
everything seems fine now though.
hope this helped, despite that fact i didnt really provide any advice!
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