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I didn't even know I was gay, but now I find I might break up her marriage...

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Question - (30 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I am a 21 year woman and I am in love with another woman. I tried to keep it to myself and ignore it in hope that it might go away but it never did.

I ended up breaking down and telling the other woman how I felt. It turned out that she felt the same about me. We have been seeing each other for a couple of months now. Although I've never before thought that I was gay, I love this woman with all my heart.

The problem is, is that she is 42, married, and has a 16yr old daughter. Our plan is that when her daughter has finished her exams, she is going to leave her husband and come and live with me. Although I am in no doubt that this is what Ii want, I know a lot of people are going to get hurt and im not sure if I can do that.

I really need some advice on the whole thing. I really dont know what to do!

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A reader, Stefani82 +, writes (4 April 2005):

Some people believe that it's wrong for 2 women or 2 men to be in love but you always follow your heart. Love always has sacrifices and hard times. But she shouldn't stay married to him when she really loves you.

Don't ever let your brain try to lead your heart, for the both of you might just be meant for each other. Don't try to figure it out. Go and follow your heart and take that chance; it could be the best thing that has ever happened to you.

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