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writes:A girl and me met at a friends place and crashing at thiers, we were getting along and she decided to go to bed after they had been out all night. They had to wake up one of the children for her to sleep in a seperate room. There were 2 couches and I was taking the small one since I can sleep almost anywhere.I didnt get any impression I upset her but I cant stop thinking I did something wrong.Is this normal or did i upset her? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 February 2018):
 No it is quite normal, you had only just met each other that evening and I would imagine she did not feel comfortable sleeping in the same room as you. Don't take it personally because I would imagine most women would feel the same.
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (6 February 2018):
Upset her how? She wasn’t upset as far as you can tell but you think you did something wrong that didn’t upset her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2018): You didn't explain at what point in the evening that she became upset with you, or what you were doing up until then.
You were sharing a place to crash at the same friend's house. You got along during the evening; but she was letting you know that she didn't want to lead you on or get too cozy just meeting you. She was also letting you know nothing was going to happen between you that evening in the event you were only being nice assuming it would. There were kids in the place to top it off, and she probably thought it would only be her crashing and here you come.
That's the best I can do with so little info.
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reader, TylerSage +, writes (4 February 2018):
 Probably not.
Woman like to be careful around new men they've met, whether or not they like them. Even though a couch was available she just wanted her our space for the night, that way no hanky-panky from your end can take place as it seems she doesn't know you very well, so she doesn't know what intentions you have at 3am in the morning for her or as @Ciar said she may not want to fart or snore around you. You're still a stranger.
The most you can do from this point is read her afterwards and see if her mannerisms towards you have changed.
All the best.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (3 February 2018):
 Not very much to go on here, but if you're asking this based solely on the fact that she wanted to be alone while she slept I'd say that was premature.
She may have been concerned that she'd fart or something or you'd see her with morning hair/morning breath. Sleeping with someone is an intimate act and not everyone is comfortable with doing that with someone they've just met, especially if there is some romantic interest.
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