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Did I just go through a bi-sexual phase?

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Question - (25 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *M a z z i e] writes:

I'm a little confussed .... I'm bisexual... well i thought i was.... but lately girls ... nothing i don't feel anything in my stomach.... apart from a few ... i'm so confussed .... i mean guys turn me on .. well if there naked they do ... but girls just dont seem to naked ... am i straight ... or did i just go threw a phrase?

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A female reader, [M a z z i e] United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2007):

[M a z z i e] is verified as being by the original poster of the question

[M a z z i e] agony auntHey, Thanks for your help ... biggest issue is i have a girlfriend a little older :S .... thanks again :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007):

At your age you can change your mind several times, you dont get too hung up on things at your age. You have your life ahead of you and we have all been through some strange phases, in those teenage years. Dont worry, it will all become apparent when you get a bit older. It is natural to find both sexes attractive at some point.

take care

xx

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A female reader, agony jess United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2007):

mayybe you just went through a phase hunny i think you should take your mind off girls by getting a lovely boyfriend jess

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A female reader, JaffaZ Australia +, writes (25 October 2007):

JaffaZ agony auntWell, if you're not attracted to girls, then I would say that you're probably straight. I've read somewhere when I was younger that it's normal for teenagers to sometimes go through a stage when they are curious in the same sex, and are attracted to/have crushes on members of the same sex. Which may be what you've gone through. On the other hand, though, if it's just in recent times that you haven't been attracted to girls, then maybe it's just the ones you're looking at that aren't doing it for you. But if girls have never turned you on, I'd say you're probably straight.

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A female reader, blueeyedbabe United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2007):

Hi Mazzie.

I really wouldnt worry. Many teenagers go throught this stage in their lives. Alot of my friends feel exactly the same as you. It sounds like you were just going through a phase. Maybe meet up with a girl who u think is attractive and see what your feelings are like towards her afterwards.

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntYou're still just young and it's very common for people to go through such a phase. At one point I found myself attracted to other boys and assumed it meant I was bisexual. Eventually that just stopped as you described.

Hormones are running riot in your body at the moment, so you may feel things that you don't really feel.

It does sound like it was just a phase and that you are straight, and even if you do get attracted to girls it doesn't nessicarily make you bisexual, it's only if you actually have intimate moments with girls, and want to do that, then you're bisexual, otherwise it appears you were just curious which is perfectly natural

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