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Did I just get friend-zoned?

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Question - (20 February 2017) 9 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2017)
A male United States age 30-35, *nknown_619 writes:

So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (24 February 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntIt depends on your situation. Have you been flirting with her or just being friendly? It does sound like she values your friendship, and hey sometimes that does develop in to more, but if you like her more than a friend then ask her out on a date.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 February 2017):

Honeypie agony auntDo you two live in geographically different areas?

If so, she is trying to set boundaries - as in all she wants is friendship. Which I suppose you can call "friend-zoned".

However, if you two have BARELY started talking again I wouldn't be so sure about being "friend-zoned" yet.

Is it a BAD thing to be friends? Or even friends first?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2017):

To most guys friendship does sound like a great basis for a relationship.

The problem is it hardly ever works when we try it. We get friend-zoned.

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A female reader, Katwri United States +, writes (20 February 2017):

I would say yes or she is unsure on how to approach the situation. If she has had problems with past relationships I'd say it's a possibility

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (20 February 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntFunny how different we all are, isn't it? I would have taken that as a compliment. What better basis for a relationship than friendship?

Be careful if this girl has trust issues because she could bring them with her if you start a relationship. She should be working on getting over them before starting a new relationship. Don't rush into anything but carry on being a good supportive friend.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (20 February 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntFunny how different we all are, isn't it? I would have taken that as a compliment. What better basis for a relationship than friendship?

Be careful if this girl has trust issues because she could bring them with her if you start a relationship. She should be working on getting over them before starting a new relationship. Don't rush into anything but carry on being a good supportive friend.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2017):

DEFINITELY friendzoned! Sorry dude it happens, move on there's plenty of ladies out their.

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A male reader, Unknown_619 United States +, writes (20 February 2017):

Unknown_619 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

We used to be friends before long time ago and bearly started talking again, But we havent seen each other since then.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 February 2017):

Honeypie agony auntCould be that she is TRYING to convey that she isn't interested in MORE than friendship with you. It can also be that she wanted to simply thank you for "whatever".

You two have "just" been talking so I'm guess you haven't met or been on any dates or spend time in person? If so, she might just be cautious.

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