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female
age
22-25,
*eautiful_liar
writes:Why are men misleading about their feelings?I ask this cos two weeks ago I got close to my ex and all of a sudden he says he's seeing someone else. He said he couldn't do relationships and planned to be celibate. But I didn't believe him as this has happened. Because of other things that upset me, I said things that I wouldn't usually say such as "are you gonna use her for sex" he didn't appreciate it but he has now got the reputation of being promiscous. He used me in the past and said he was sorry it seemed like it. I still had feelings for him but I didn't want to have a relationship and became convinced he felt the same...When we broke up he immediately went on the rebound and guessing that this sort of links with this.I had enough of my wasting my time with him and said "nice knowing..." I deleted his number and made contact impossible to make. Did I do the right thing and was I reasonable to have said those things?
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reader, 123skyscraper  +, writes (19 October 2009):
leave him for your own good. he was a player way before you came along. you were just another number. get away from this guy and respect yourself. i been there once, never again. my ex went on the rebound too, dating a cheap version of me less than one week after he broke up with me. still trying the 'i love and miss you' talk to get me back in his life, but it aint working. delete and block him from everything.this time, the grass is greener on the other side. ps. i said worst things to mine, in very polite manners of course. then i let it go and never mention it again. trust me, they get it, they just dont want to stop doing it :)
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reader, Emilysanswers  + ♥, writes (14 October 2009):
Yep, getting rid of users like this is the only way to move on and be happy.
So forget this and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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