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Did I blow it? Will I hear from him again?

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Question - (24 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *hinachik writes:

I have been dating this really nice guy for 3 months- its hard because he's in the RAF and is often working, but we really enjoy our time together. 2 weeks ago he came back from Germany, and wanted me to take some time off to be with him, and for one reason or another we didn't end up spending all the time we wanted together- one night he was supposed to come over- he ended up getting emotional, having a few drinks and falling asleep, which I thought was strange.

Last week I sent him a letter to tell him I was falling for him, and since then he's been distant. I've not heard from him for 2 days which is strange for him, and don't know what is going on now. Do you think he's freaked out and is thinking of ending things with me? Its so hard not to be emotional about this, and hard to make heads or tails about this behaviour. Did I get it wrong? Please help!

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A female reader, chinachik United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2010):

chinachik is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much for your advice- can't tell you how much its appreciated...he got back to me today, and am really happy :) thanks again!

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (24 July 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntthat could be a possibility, but give it more time before you jump to that conclusion.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

I think a letter was a little too much at this stage. See what happens, may be it's nothing

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