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Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, Gay relationships, Sex, Three is a crowd, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 July 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me recently if any of my beauty school friends are Bi i said no why he said since i kissed a girl before he didn't know if i was up for it again it's been 6yrs. i have NO interest in kissing a girl so i told him why did he want me to ? he said he would not care and that as long as i do not have a threesome with my friends boyfriend or husband this pissed me off i told him he was stupid and i'm not into threesomes and that i would not kiss a girl it was once in my life and that i would never cheat on him with a girl or boy so than he said that was exactly wanted to hear since he didn't know if i would mess with a girl but why 6yrs. after i feel he wanted to ask for a 3some if i would of been open for the idea it just felt he was testing to see if i was open for a lesbain fling probally so he can see us make out than join in than bam 3some or he was testing me to if i would cheat on him with girl ? what you guys think ???

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A male reader, Patman1845 United States +, writes (7 August 2012):

Patman1845 agony auntI think he does want threesome, the secondthat you told him about that kiss, it stuck like a virus. He's not testing you, he wants it. But don't do it if you're not comfortable, he will get over himself.

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