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writes:I've recently had feelings for a boy at my school who I've been friends with for 2-3 years. He text me on Friday saying 'i love u' but i wasnt sure if he was joking or not because on Fridays he does football with his mates, so I text my friend and asked her but she said footie wasnt on on friday. So i continued to text him and asked him if he meant it or not and he said 'what if i did mean it?' but he kept dodging the question! Im not sure if this was because he's a shy person or he felt uncomfortable. I'm afraid things will be really awkward tomorrow and theres so much pressure in school on couples, and im terrified of being judged. I'm also worried that when we (if we) get together things will fizzle out quickly, i really dont want them to because i REALLY like him!! any help will be appreciated =)xx
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (12 March 2007):
chunkymunky is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the replies, school 2day in like 5 mins lol :S youre right about trying to push it out of my mind, i just dont know how and yes i would say im pretty inexpirienced with guys (im 15) what can i do about that? :S xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): well same here i really like this lad and the other day we was on msn and he said that he loves me so i put that back but i dont no if he realy meant it but i havnt said anything about it to him because he gets really mad over things so i think u shud just play it cool and see what happens from there thats all im going to do
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 March 2007):
 Whoa! Slow down! You're worrying about a relationship that hasn't even started yet ending! Your age isn't specified on your post but would it be fair to assume that you're pretty inexperienced with guys? People always play games at the start of a relationship and aren't straight with each other when answering questions. If you want to be with this guy then maybe it's your turn to make the gesture. Ask him out, if he says no what's the big deal? You just pick yourself up and move on. And if you do get together chances are it won't last forever. How many adult couples do you know who met in school and are still together? However that doesn't mean you can't have fun and just enjoy being young and dating. Until you meet the man you're going to marry every relationship is going to end. The trick is just pushing that out of your mind and living in the moment.
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