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18-21,
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writes:my situation is this:(I am 18, he's 22) I have been getting to know this guy since november, we started out texting and talking on the phone everyday, we didn't really see each other because he lives about 30 minutes away. But when we did see each other we had great conversation. Even though I have a hard time opening up to him, he talked quiet a lot.Since mid january we haven't been speaking, texing all that much and much less seeing each other. At first I was understanding because he works most of the day, and I go to school and work. But now I have been getting upset because he doesn't seem to wanna talk to me. At his job he doesn't have a manager or supervisor looking over him, their for why doesn't he call or text me? And he has weekends open so why doesn't he mention that he wants to meet up? I'm willing to make time to talk or see him and he knows that. What really bothers me the most is that he had told me that he doesn't want me to lead him on and that if I didn't like him or became interested in some one else to let him know. I figured that he would do the same and he hasn't so now i think its kinda hyprocitical on his part to say one thing and do something else.Since mid january we now text every other day and he doesn't call me and I haven't seen him in 4 weeks. But now I haven't heard from him in a week. Did he find someone else? Is he just too busy? (Which to me isn't a reason. If you care for someone you always have time for them, right?) I even erased his number from my phone, I think it was out of disapointment cause he seemed to be the guy I've been waiting for.I just really wanna get others opinions on this situation, like what would you do if you had this happening? I also wanna know if its his way of telling me he doesn't wanna talk to me? Or if I should just stop thinking about it and leave it as it is?
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (30 January 2009):
 Honestly, i think deep down you know whats going on but because you liked him and saw something coming from this relationship you are trying to find excuses, (which is normal). The bottom line is he has your contact information and he knows that you are willing to get together and he still chooses to let a nice girl like you go.If you have made an attempt to contact him, than its best you move on. I am so happy that you deleted him number because having it would only prompt you to call or linger over it. Move on and go find someone who is ready to give you what you want~dee
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