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Did he break up with me because he doesn't want to get hurt or is it a load of BS?

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Question - (12 March 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *titchGirl91 writes:

Why did he do it?

I'm so terribly confused I've been seeing this guy for 3 months and everything was good, we knew where each other stood and got on really well. We had a date recently and things where good I was a bit upset due to a friend being horrible to me, but I didn't talk about unless he ask and even when he did I was like lets just leave it.

I went home and things with my friend got worse and he was texting me I told what was said and that's when things got confusing. Now my friends weren't the biggest fans of his not going to lie, but they still accepted him, but he text me saying that he feels like he's partly responsible for my friends being like this and maybe it would better if we became friends, I was like excuse me?

He was the one that chased me and got me to put my guard down and now you say this? He continued to say that he can't support me with only seeing me once a week and I deserve better than that. Now we're both young so money is tight so it's hard to get a train 3 days a week to see each other I understand that, but he just confused me? I am also possibly going back home in the summer which mean it wouldn't last long and he said he doesn't want to develop deeper feelings for me and the be really hurt when I leave. Again I get but he knew this from when we first started talking so why lead me on and do this?

Also he still says he misses me and sends me kisses and says how cute I am, I tell him to stop but he won't im not sure what to do about that either? The main answer I'm looking for is do you think he actually did do this because he does care for me and he doesn't want to get hurt in the end or is it a load on BS and he didn't have the guts to tell me the truth???

Please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015):

Who cares what he is thinking or why he did it....the relationship is over. Cut your losses and move forward. All the reasons in the world are immaterial the result is the same. Cut off contact and move on.

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