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*ommy2k7
writes:I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 27, as I wanted to focus on my education. The first one was a LDR, but that didn't last because , even though I did go and see her, when I came back down, she decided to cheat on me.The second one said she didn't want to be with me because of my disability, and also she tried to pressure me into sex.On the one hand, I am happy to be single, on the other. I want a girlfriend.However, when I get someone I am interested in, I seem to get a bit too pushy!!Is it because I'm afraid to be happy, am I worried what girls will think or am I afraid to get out of my comfort zone? And, I know you have to be physically attracted to someone as well, but why do some women go for looks alone, only to find that maybe they're not good-looking on the inside? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tine +, writes (13 December 2010):
 sum self obsessed women go for looks alone to boost their own ego and personally i laugh because when it does get down to it, many good looking men out their are horrible in the inside... the women soon find this out...
how about not actually going out intending on pulling, just going out and hoping to meet new friends?? that way you can get to know a girl on the inside, and vice versa and then take it from there..
How exactly do you think that you are too pushy?? and what is your comfort zone?? There is nothing better looking than going out and seeing a man enjoy himself, enjoy the company he is with and basically just having a good time. So when your out, let loose and just enjoy the night.. if you don't meet someone right then and there, there are plenty more nights in the year. i think its more important to concentrate on gaining your own self confidence before you try and multi task with pulling girls..
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reader, Kenj +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Sounds like you had a lucky eascape with 1 and 2. There will be someone out there for you, if you start a relationship just take it easy, theres no rush for anything spend time getting to know each other.
Dont spend all your spare time with her, keep her guessing.
It may be a self confidence issue with yourself, but its like anything in life the more of it you do the better you get at it.
Dont give up trying. Remeber it should not all be about looks, it counts more if the person is sincere.
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