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writes:I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals friends house. whenever he got close to me i got really nervous and it was really weird and sometimes when we text he says things and i get butterflies in my stomach. my question is why am i feeling this? also sometimes my friends think that im in love with him but i dont know at all.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2016):
 It is called first love Sweetie. It is okay to feel these things and enjoy dating this guy. I understand you cannot spend much quality time together because off your age but that does not mean you can not enjoy each others company. Just as long as you are mature and not rush in to anything just enjoy dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2016): I was 15 when I had my first proper boyfriend, someone who was really into the relationship and we're still together and we're 18 now XD What I'm trying to say is, it's normal when you're 15.. I didn't jump straight into a serious relationship, like you, a few months into it we flirted a lot and yea we weren't allowed to go out often.. But when we decided to be in a relationship, that's when you must be aware of the consequences of your actions. You can like this boy by all means, but be careful and make sure you guys wanna be together for the right reasons. I wouldn't stop you from seeing a guy cuz my thinking is that, I wouldn't want someone to pass on another person, I mean who knows? What you guys have might be real! So yeah.. You can be with him and by all means date him properly when you can, just make sure you're careful and safe and ofc be responsible!
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reader, MartiJJ  +, writes (25 October 2016):
 Why do people patronise us when we are young, I was physically ready for a relationship when I was only fourteen and thankfully managed to get help in reigning in my hormones until I was emotionally ready at the age of eighteen, your not a child and you know your own mind, the butterflies are a symptom of romantic feelings for someone, but not love, true love takes time, most people don't have life experience enough to recognise this in our youth but you learn it in maturity, it could be called a crush at this stage but that's not to say it's not real or true feelings, other symptoms include, feeling elated when they contact you, loss of appetite, or in some cases nausea, trouble sleeping, and eventually spending every moment of every day thinking about the person, the reason your feeling nervous is because this is all new to you and new things are daunting no matter what age you are, exercise caution, don't leap into a physical situation, not just because of all the risks (pregnancy, sti's etc) but to give yourself time to get a better idea of how you feel emotionally, this might be difficult with your hormones making you feel all over the place, but nothing bad ever came from a slowly started relationship, also remember he will be having problems controlling his hormones also, it's a confusing stage in our lives, and remember we are always on hand for any other advice you might need, whatever it may be!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (23 October 2016):
 You're not really dating, more like flirting - people who are actually dating go on dates, even if they're group dates. This isn't being in love - it's like a mutual crush, which is perfectly good at your age :)
Just relax and be realistic; it's a cute crush, but not dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016): Sweetheart stay in school you are to young to date now.Having a first love is ok I guess but it comes with responsibility like teen pregnancy,diseases and dropping out of school and those three things you don't need at all. So I'm with your parents 100 percent.??
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