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writes:This is probably a silly question. Well I am a girl and openly bisexual but not sexually active and my friend is bi-curious or whatever and lately she keeps bringing up sex with me.Talking about how she wants me to perform oral on her and have dreams about her. Its always through text. She never does it in person. I got along with her even though its creepy to me.Is she trying to give me a hint or is she just being silly? I asked her if she wants me to perform oral sex on her or something? and she just say 'no comment'.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 She's a friend? And you aren't sexually interested in her? Just tell her no. Sex with a friend ruins the friendship anyways. I'm bisexual and had a bi-curious/bisexual girl friend who hinted at us getting it on. She'd been having girl on girl sex before. While my friend was hot and all, I just couldn't go there. It'd make our friendship awkward.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 November 2011):
 If you are uncomfortable with her texts tell her.
I'm bisexual and one of the things I've found when I'm active in that part of my life is that bi-curious girls are often hinting and teasing but when push comes to shove they have to really be ready and often are not.... so it' ends up just being teasing...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 November 2011):
 If she only does it via text, I wonder if she isn't trying to bait you into texting something really revealing back to her. She may have other people looking at the texts. I'd ignore that nonsense, and tell her to talk to you in real life if she has any questions about sex.
Her tactics sound kind of creepy to me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 My "vote" would be acting silly- the "no comment" response kinda clinched it. she's just pushing you into a comitment so you'll admit your sexuality and thus reinforce her own.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 She is probably egging you on because she is curious and wants to try, but does not want to be the one to come out and say it. So she plays it safe and hopes you take the hint, and the the initiative .
If it creeps you out or makes you uncomfortable at any level, don't do it. And tell her to stop. Don't ever be the sexual guinea pig for anybody 's idle experiments - male or female .
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