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writes:How does it feel to have a faithful and loving boyfriend who cares for your feelings, spends on you, and makes you feel special after having a selfish liar and jerk who crushed your world for a long time by being the exact opposite of the and description?Has anyone had the experience? was there a stage where before you found this good boyfriend, you felt like such a person would not exist?Another question: Do you guys believe that it depends on us whether our partner is good/bad in the relationship??OR is it independent of that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2016): What happens alot is the woman doesn't leave the past in the past, so they meet a really good guy, but they don't believe the new guy will stay the nice guy, so they dump the good guy, then they end up with a jerk again, an break the good guys heart, who only wanted to treat her like a woman supposed to be treated, it's really to bad cause the good guy, would of only treated her with love, an it will take some times a long time, for the nice guy, to get over the pain, so ladies, their is a few of us out here
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (16 June 2016):
 If he's a jerk, it's HIS FAULT got being a jerk.
If he proves to be a loving and faithful boyfriend, that will probably be because YOU brought out the best in him.
Does this help?
Good luck...
P.S. Trying to find fault with others is much like trying to find dog droppings on your lawn when it's dark out....
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reader, Myau  +, writes (16 June 2016):
 Thats quite a few questions there. So ok, here goes.
1. Good
2. No, Im a guy who is into girls. My relationships have been ok I guess. Some good, but none great. That's why I'm not married.
3. No. People are who they are. Don't waste your time with bad people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2016): If your definition of a good boyfriend is a guy who tells you what you want to hear, buys you gifts and strokes your ego then you are very likely to end up drawn to another liar and jerk. Controlling, manipulative, lying, cheating scumbags prey on insecure, vulnerable, vain, needy women. They know exactly what to say and do to lure them in and get them under control before revealing their true selves.Here's an idea. Why not look for a guy who has qualities and traits that would make you want to care for him and make him feel special? My late mother often said you'll know you're in love when you want to do more for the other person than you'd ever do for yourself.If you think in terms of what you can do for a guy instead of what he can do for you, then that will go a long way towards weeding out the liars and the con artists and the players and other assorted jerks.Any jerk can bribe and sweet-talk his way into bed with you. Raise your standards and look for someone more substantive.
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