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Crush MADNESS! How can I get over him?

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Question - (3 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2008)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

How Can I get over this guy I like.... He has a girlfriend, and he is such a bad boy. I am sorta the good girl but yet I am so drawn to him and I can't stop looking at his myspace page.( I am not a STALKER!!) I can't advoid him because I have like 2 classes with him and he is very hard not to notice because he is very loud, and always telling jokes but sometimes he can be very calm and serious(I love him like this the most.) Anyways I can never have him, because he has someone and I think they been dating for a while now, and so I just want this crush to be over, and I only formed this crush to get rid of another crush but I don't want this crush anymore, I don't want any crush!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008):

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Thanks for the helpppppppppppppppppp!!!

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2008):

Dazzerg agony auntWell I think you first need to realise what it is about this guy that you like; since he's a bad boy I would say that you are probably drawn to the excitement and that your feelings are mostly sexual, ie you lust after him but don't love him. You probably also entertain hopes of reforming his character 'taming'him and this is why you like him when he is 'serious and calm'. I don't think you 'formed this crush to get rid of another one' although that maybe the conscious reasoning behind it - the best thing you can do is ask yourself why am I having these feelings, bring them out into the open and they should fade away and become less intense.

Other than that, as Laura said go out and have fun and try and do things that take your mind off it.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (3 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntHe is an ugly toad. CROAK! CROAK!.. There he goes..! How can you like a toad?

Since he is not available, why pine for him? He is not yours

Don't have any crush on anyone! You should have learned your lessons about crushes.

There are so many things to do and enjoy.Go out and have fun!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

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No ones going to help me...

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