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writes: dear love cupid, i have a crush on a guy in my school. he's quite nice to me sometimes but he also love to tease in a kinda hurtful ways. there was a time when we were making our school project in one of my friends home. i accidentally wounded my heel and was walking around jumping since it's hurting. he scolded me saying what if my friend's mom saw me jumping like that in front of all of my friends. but when we're alone he said "omg.. it is really awful.." to me *referring to my wound* with an understanding tone. he gave me mixed signals and i'm really confused. we also stared at each other a lot that sometimes we hold gaze for a long time until one of us broke it. help me please?
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (8 October 2015):
 Hi there. I'm sorry to say but I'm going to have to…At your age, boys or girls, will sometimes reactant not always handle a situation in the same manner as what an adult would ( and even the react bad sometimes). There could have been a few ways to interpret his comments. My guess is without knowing the true extent of your injury he may have thought your jumping around could have resulted in the parents of your friend thinking you guys were mucking around. like you said, once he realised and had a chance to see what all the fuss was about ,changed his attitude to be more understanding. I don't think that is him running hot and cold more like a mis understanding. which we are all guilty of at one point or another. So don't be reading too much into it. for what its worth,if you are only 13, my advice would be to be JUST REALLY GOOD FRIENDS because its kinda young to be focused on wanting a serious bf. A great BOY/friend is worth more than a thousand crushes gone bad.leave that kind of heartache when you are a bit older
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (8 October 2015):
 You obviously quite fancy him, and if he is not attached then I think it would be nice for you to arrange something. He might be too shy to ask you straight out so you have to make it easy for him.
You could ask him to meet up for a coffee on Saturday morning. Or if you wanted to invest a bit of cash then buy two vouchers for at MacDonalds or BurgerKing and say you've been given them and would he like to join you.
If you are into art you could ask him if he would like to go to a gallery nearby.
But don't choose the cinema. It kills conversation, and this is all about getting to know someone in a safe friendly environment.
I hope it turns out well. Nothing ventured; nothing gained.
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