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writes:I have been in love with this guy but he is older than me, we have been flirty and its pretty obvious that we like eachother but it's never actually been said, i'm not even sure i will ever tell him, but the other day he told me he loved me when he was drunk, he said that he would never tell anyone because i was younger but if i was older he would definitely want us to be together, i ignored it because he was drunk, but my best mate said that being drunk doesnt make you lie it just makes you more prone to telling the truth. could what he said have been true?
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (9 September 2007):
 Alcohol does help in telling truths. But what is true and what is not. When drunk love can mean so many things. "Your a good friend" "He likes hanging out with you" "Thank you for another beer". It could mean he loves you as you would hope he does. With him being older, he may say he doesn't want to tell people, and using alcohol so if a rumor begins, he'll have an answer to back it up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): It is true that when I am drunk I am more prone to say things I would never say when I am sober. But to be honest, it doesn't mean that what I am saying holds any truth at all. I have told guys that I loved them when I was drunk. The next morning I wake up and just think "what the hell happened? what have I done???"
It CERTAINLY makes you more "open," whatever that means, but it doesn't necessarily make you more honest. Just so you know.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (1 September 2007):
 It's possible, but alcohol effects you in a lot of ways, it doesn't mean you're more prone to tell the truth.
Ask him about it, after he's sobered up, and be done with it.
Best of luck, take care.
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reader, jezz  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 i reckon if you asked him (sober) then you are more likely to put your mind at rest. but if you are too shy to ask him again you should just leave it and if he really meant he is bound to tell you again at some point.
good luck chick x
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reader, tinkerbell01 +, writes (1 September 2007):
 hi, i notice your age group falls into 13-15 and you say he's older than you so im guessing he's over 16. Until you at least hit 16 stay away. if he dos like you then he will wait. i had a man 13 years older than me chasing me. and when he found out i was not 16. he stayed well clear. but low and be hold when i hit 16 there he was and we spent 7 years together. so if he wants you and you want him so bad Wait and time will tell how seroius abt you he really is
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