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writes:My boyfriend and I see eachother only on weekends and for the past 15 months we have had sex 2 to 3 times a week. The past weekend a long one at that he was packing and moving but also had plenty of down time for the fourth and he was too tired. His usual schedule is working out every day and he was still up for it and we enjoy it very much. He dosent talk much about feelings it just seems odd to me. Should I be concerned. Also I forget to mention we tried to have sex Saturday and he could not perform half way through and didn't want me to please him orally and the only time that happened was the first time. Is that the problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 There are hundres of things that effect us guys, being tired is one(although I know of no one too tired for oral gratification-dead maybe but tired no). You didn'y mention his job. High stress jobs can really work to "soften" thr relationship too. Give it a month or two and report back to us. I have a feeling everything will be OK.
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reader, peggypoo +, writes (6 July 2010):
Sounds to me like he was just partying hard with his friends that sex wouldve just put him in a coma lol. I wouldnt worry about it . Boys will be boys and July 4th to boys is like a mandatory day to get drunk out of their minds. Just see how he behaves next week and so forth
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