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Could it be her using fake profiles?

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Question - (13 January 2017) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2017)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I would like your opinions about what has happened four times in the last four months, i have been on a dating site for few years now, I've had two girlfriends,so the one ghost me a year ago, I've ask a few women friends of mine about this, well I treated her special,i haven't bother her at all, i block her on the dating site,telephone, an also block her on facebook,but four different women on the dating site has written me, but after four or five texs they disappeared,I've have women, do that before, but it still shows ,they have viewed me,an i viewed them, but these four women, it was there first day on the dating site,an they were gone completely, they all live close to me, with in twenty miles or so, my women friends say it her using a fake profiles, cause I never chased her, i just walked away, is it possible she is doing this, an yes I do still miss her,they said this not me, other women just don't write you back, they don't get off of the site the same day they get on it

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (15 January 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you need to delete your profile from that dating site,

Looks like she is messing with your head, don't allow her. Why not try going to bars and clubs to meet women?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2017):

Hello am the one who asked the question, i treated her very special, an there was pictures, its funny , the pictures were of Spanish women, her best friends are Spanish ,each time I asked them out for coffee each time, they told me they were not living in the town their profile said, an one picture was the same woman from four months ago, so thank you for your opinions , an why if you just made the profile up, would you say you were in a town that you wasnt, each one lived close to her, an one said she lives in the town she use to live in,am no idiot, I know I treated her good, so am at peace, i look her up on a site, that you can look up there past, she told me she was married one time, i found out four times, three were men, that's ok, I've been married just one time, have a good day

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2017):

N91 agony auntCould be but could just as easily not be. I don't think any of us could give you the answer.

I agree with chi girl, don't reply to accounts with no pictures. It's also pretty easy to tell when fake pictures are being used.

Try and meet women in daily life and leave the online stuff as a last resort?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (13 January 2017):

chigirl agony auntI also think it could be her, but it could just as well be someone else entirely who is playing games with your head. Don't write back to such profiles. If it's their first day, wait a day or two before you write back. And don't write to profiles with no pictures.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2017):

Find a new dating site. You seem a little paranoid. What did you do to that woman? It couldn't be karma?

Just find a new dating site; and your troubles will be over.

She'll still find you on Facebook; but she has to show some sort of identification and activity that will surely give her away, or you'll just ignore her.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (13 January 2017):

Honeypie agony auntCould it be her? Sure.

If there are TOO many "coincidences" it becomes kind of obvious that it's not coincidental.

Have you tried or considered switching dating site?

And if it IS this woman she isn't doing this because she liked you and misses you. She is playing mind-F games with you. Why? No idea. Maybe she is upset that you were dating HER yet still on the dating site... Or she is a nutter.

I'd take a break from THIS dating site - put your account as inactive (if you can) and go out and MEET women in person instead. Or just go out and live life. I'd say 2 months away from the dating site MIGHT make her realize that she has been found out. And it might do you some good to go meet people OFF the internet?

Since she isn't harassing you, I don't think the dating site can do anything. All she is really doing is wasting your time.

Either way, I wouldn't waste time trying to figure out why she is doing this or IF IT IS her. Just get on with life, OP.

Don't let her waste any more of YOURS.

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